Monthly Archives: September 2011

Knowing How to Respond…The Proper Approach

Analysis, paralysis…what is maturity?  Maturity is a consciousness, a Higher level of understanding and processing of life events and situations.  As one grows, learns and evolves, new choices and new pathways begin to appear.  Old ways of thinking, or processing your surroundings or experiences, begin to fade away and one finds their self seeing their life events and situations through different eyes, along with processing these life events through new found wisdom.  One is now able to reach deep within their own being and tap into their newly integrated wisdom, or tap into their inherent wisdom brought from past lifetimes.  All that can be accessed is now accessible from the practice of knowing how to retrieve such “know-how”, experience/expertise, or “wisdom of the heart”.

The key factor in defining ones maturity is reliant on one’s ability to trust.  As one evolves over time and establishes certain criteria for moving forward and into new levels, they will also be defining their “code of trust”, or level of trust.  Even as life experiences may create severe tests of trust one may still come forward without losing their previous established trust.  Here, while still coming to a new Higher level of trust, one breaks all the barriers to their compromised trust, transcending to a new understanding of what is now necessary for trust to be in this Higher state, or working level.

Responding to any situation is a choice one makes; how they respond or will they respond (or react).  In either choice the response will have a deep overall effect on any situation or experience.  One who is flowing in their trust, with “wisdom of the heart”, will certainly respond in a balanced and response-able manner.  They know moderation is a key aspect in a proper approach to any situation, as any extreme may create chaos or entanglements with negative oppositions.  One who knows their heart and what is true and authentic for their well-being and need to keep trust flowing actively, without any resistance or inhibitions, will find their way easily through any life situations or events.  They are able to freely process what is their best response to any occasion or situation without engaging, or connecting to, unhealthy extremes or distractions.  This easy flow comes with practice and maturity, practice in paying attention to details while realizing your potentials for different response to your situations, and maturity in trusting your responses are the right choices for you at the time they are made.

Maturity is all a learning experience, which is what your life is.  Having fun with this, along with fueling a happy heart with love and joy, keeps this all moving in the right direction every time.  Do not second-guess yourself here, find the trust that runs strong and deep within your being and courageously allow every step into your future to be one that you respond with a happy open heart, loving your life and knowing consciously that you are growing, learning and evolving just perfectly.  It is a natural process and your response to each life event and experience is a natural response.  Trust this with all your heart and you will fuel your maturity in your greatness of all that you are meant to be, right here and now, and into your amazing bright future now unfolding.


Take Your Time to Choose Wisely

Stop if you are unsure dear ones, stop if you are uncertain and feel a struggle going on within.  Stop and retreat, step back out of your head and feel with your senses, with love for yourself and who you are, right here and now.  Decisions never have a time-table, even when you are told you must decide right now.  Choices are vast and options are always available in abundance yet none of these choices or options can be accessed if one is in confusion, chaos or struggling to control what seems to be demanding their attention and choice-making at this time.  Stop all your mind chatter and find the quiet space to retreat into your inner-self, into your core Truth, or into your own knowing of what feels right and good for you.

This is the time to now nurture you. This is a time of growth, thus, you are in unfamiliar territory.  You are now in a perfect space to explore and adventure into what is calling to you now.  A perfect place for new discovery, of new choices and new options that are more in alignment to where, and who, you are now.  The mind is usually the last to acknowledge your new where-bouts thus it creates a resistance to what is being sensed and offered by the rest of your being.  Resistance can paralyze action if one does not stop to re-balance and allow the mind to be liberated of its natural need to control what is being presented.  Release yourself by letting go of the old mind-thoughts, if just for a short term, to allow new information and understanding to be brought to Light.

What is the rush dear ones?  Why do you think that acting hasty means you will not miss an opportunity?  This is all an illusion of mind games and manipulation.  Relax first, let yourself take a step back and remove the old boundaries and the old behaviors that have been imposed upon you.  Remove the old fears of what-is-what and fully be present in which you are right now, today, whole and completely able to open and listen to newly exposed, accessible, understandable information.  You see, until the access is made changes can only be made through toil and labor.  Yet, once you “stop” and re-align to what is newly accessible you are then freed to jump right in to the flow of nurturing well-being and joyous growth.

“Stop” does not mean missing out.  “Stop” does not mean losing ground.  “Stop” does not mean never succeeding, on the contrary.  Here one will fully open to all that is accessible, and available, to fulfill that which they are sensing to be discovered, in that which is being desired and newly created.  Get out of your own way here and free the mind to expand with your hearts call to discovering the unfolding unknowns, and together, heart, mind and action can work synergistic to bring you into alignment once again with the abundant blessings waiting to be accessed and received.  Life is an open invitation to live!