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Fated Connections

The birth of a new “baby”, such a miracle of life, creation, and how it all comes to be in your now moment.  Starting from the moment of conception everything is present and aligned as a union of yin and yang, at a moment in time, the right time, place and conditions.   Here, in perfect harmony, the joining together creates “the one”, “oneness”, in its own unique individual way of being.

 In this union and “oneness” everything needed and necessary for the journey forward becomes present.  Every tool, every system, every part of the plan that allows this new union of energy to move forward, evolve, and grow in infinite ways of making new connections and sharing of wisdom, becomes connected in some way, not one piece is separate.  This is the miracle of life; this is the concept of “oneness”, which in its most simple form, is a beautiful interconnectedness originated from Source, infinite in its nature.  The human mind may not be able to fathom such magnitude or capacity of strength and power, yet does not need to, as there is a natural flow to everything that is working together in this “oneness”.

This is perfection, as any union is made up of its Source.   Any creation of form is a conception and union of Source energy, coming from the original Source, a human baby from its parents, a relationship/partnership from its persons willing to mutually converge, an invention from its inspired individuals putting thoughts into action, even a human body regenerating its cells.  Everything works in harmony, flow and balance when creation is occurring; we cannot rush birth.  And, as you contemplate this phenomenon you will begin to realize the workings of creation as always present and available in your life.



Acceptance is a simple claim to the truth at hand.  A hand-off, of sorts, delivered and shared from one person to the next, where one feels their freedom from deep within to simply be right where they are without questions, doubts, or worries of judgment.  A complete letting go on all levels, and a full opening up to what is now new and deliverable from this point of acceptance.  There can be no other way to achieve goals or realize wisdom without first finding acceptance in what one is experiencing in their here-and-now state of being and reality.  How does this relate to one’s connections, relationships and partnerships with others?

 In order for a full and complete connection with another to take place, acceptance must be placed out in the open to participants partaking in the connection.  Once acceptance is the driving potential in what will transpire and be experienced between participants, there will be an infinite amount of space made available for the evolving connection being shared.  Here all participants may openly and freely interact, mutually sharing, giving and receiving, their unique contributions without fears or reservations.  A strong synergy forms between all participants and from there the strength of those bonds forming becomes greater in their power to make new exchanges, even those that will branch out beyond the original participants.  Here acceptance grows in strength, as does the mutual trust and what is being uniquely conveyed through each sharing participant.

 Acceptance allows the delivery of all that has come forth at that time and place.  In that moment and beyond, there can be great joy felt and experienced with any participant’s personal experience during their connection and interaction.  There are many dimensions to acceptance as all energetic bonds are dimensionally initiated, first by the mutual attraction of what is ready to be connected then by the exchange of energy through emotions, feelings and sensing coming forward.  This dimensional and mutual exchange of acceptance becomes what one gives their attention to, being what they have found acceptance in.  Finding acceptance here means removing all expectations of any kind.  Once again there’s a full and complete allowing of fulfillment of what is attempting to come forward and together at that time.

 Once acceptance is understood, the practice of allowing dimensional acceptance will directly continue to grow in strength and accessibility, allowing all elements past, present, and future, to be consciously present at any given moment.  One begins to freely, deeply and whole-heartedly find acceptance as they sense the symbiotic energies working together to form their next new now moment.

“And” becomes a choice

Reap what you sow, it’s harvest time. Would you let your full grown fields of bountiful harvest sit idle until they withered and died? Or, would you do what’s necessary, to gather up all that could be harvested and utilized in its greatest potentials and capacities? One may not know what they may need or how to gather their harvest, yet could they not seek help or assistance in finding the means to do so? What of the one who knows it is time to gather their harvest, yet still remains complacent or too afraid to do what must be done? Could they not also seek help in their search for a means to gather their harvest?

Do these scenarios present an “either-or” decision? From one perspective they may, either harvest the bounty or one will not reap the abundance that is theirs. What is it about allowing what’s now ready and available to be a part of our life that we hesitate and resist it? How often do we allow our devoted efforts and hard work toward what we’ve decided to create, to simply go to waste, to simply die out and wither away because we have not took the necessary steps to harvest our bountiful resources, skills, talents, or wisdom? In what ways can we make changes that would help or assist us in the follow through and fulfillment of our great and bountiful harvest, ready to be delivered onto us and our life?

As we include this new bounty can we use the word “and”, as opposed to “or”? Can we have what it is we have now and more? Can we simply remind our self that the “more” and “and” being presented here is our abundance now ready to be included in our life? If we allow “this” and “that” wouldn’t we now have many more new possibilities for the satisfaction of daily and future needs and desires, for us and those we are presently connected to in our family and friend relationships? Here, can we simply ask our self with each new step “And, am I allowing myself to openly receive the abundance that is coming to me now?”


Friendship…A Unique Blend of Shared Experience

So very happy to know you my friend, so very happy to get to know you better and better with each passing moment of our time together. You are a gift, to me and my life. My life has grown and evolved in so many extraordinary and beautiful ways because of you in it. It is my greatest desire to do the same for you, to offer all of who I am freely and openly to you, in any way or regard that I can. I love you my friend.

I cherish the joy and the laughter we share. I look forward to the next bright idea you deliver in your unique way of expressing who you are. There is so much more about you that I look forward to experiencing. It’s easy to be with you, there’s something about the trust and respect we inherently share that makes this so. What’s capture me most is how you look at me, how you can see into the deepest parts of me, and how life seems to be that much fuller because of your presence.

It’s not that I have to physically spend every second with you, awake or asleep; I simply feel you in my heart as you are free to come and go, in and out of my thoughts and dreams on a regular basis. “The pleasures all mine”, I would like to say, yet I know it is generously shared between us. Being with you and having you in my life I have come to know greater gratitude for all of life. You teach me the greater significance of being myself as you continue to live being you, yourself, and all that you are.

Friends forever?? I know so, as you are already a deeper part of me, heart and Soul, and everything in between. No ultimatums or one-sided agendas, just a simple and free-flowing sharing of giving and receiving the beauty within each other. I am eternally grateful for you, my friend.


What Happens When We Become Intolerant?

Relax and let resentments vanish, vanish into nothingness, no need or purpose for this waste of thought energy. Nonsense, as in resentments make no sense, in fact resentments will block your common sense, quickly taking your thoughts and emotions to intolerance. What happens when you first reach this point, maybe insecurity, reckless behavior, high stress from anger, or more resentment and regrets? How does that work for you when the obstacles of any good feelings will quickly come forward onto your path, first slowing you down then eventually blocking all positive progress? What’s the point here?

Take the cue, that deep intense signal that comes forward like a sharp pain in your solar plexus area, and allow yourself to regain your awareness to what’s allowed to be present, as well as asking yourself “What is it that I am attempting to preserve? You begin to realize that you are in the midst of “battle”, a battle with the ego perhaps, yours or another’s? Or, is it a battle of judgment asking you “How do I battle the cause that is affecting me this harsh or intolerant way?” It may seem as if you are on the line of defense attempting to protect yourself from being bullied, or in a greater way from a losing battle over cause and effect, right and wrong; one you never wanted to be a part of in the first place.

“Where’s the bottom line?” you might say. Yet, could this place be the point of reconciliation? Can there be a gift or blessing, even a miracle that could come at this point before the final curtain is closed because of intolerance? Can you find that point of Light and pivot on that? Yes, it is always a choice, your choice in how you will respond. Can you change your focus then proceed forward in a new direction, knowing that no matter what happens now there has been wisdom gained through the harsh experience you’ve just bared? What have you been giving permission to contribute to you overall experience?

Clearly you will begin to ask new questions with the new direction you are now traveling, doing your best to not look back or allow your new focus to be distracted by the discomfort of unknowns you may feel here. You realize that you are able to move on, clearly choosing an authentic path forward for you, engaged in love, joy and peace. Light on your feet once again you begin to feel your strength renew as your internal power motivates your purpose for being. Your awareness has shifted once again to understanding that freedom is being in the here and now.


Our Expectancy In “Forever”

Moments are fleeting, one-by-one we count and recognize each passing moment in “time” as having some importance or significance. What are we doing in this way of measuring and defining something as “time”, concrete yet intricate and infinite in what each fluid moment holds?  What happens when we say, intend, or attempt to plan “forever”? Are we not seeking to define our expectancy of “forever” from our present moment in “time”?  Can “forever” in our intentions ever be taken in any light of truth? How do we realistically grasp a concept that holds great intricacy in its infinite evolving nature?

As we seek to understand our expectancy in “forever” we come to know that most often we connect “forever” to one of our many commitments we have made along our life’s’ path. We use “forever” as a way of holding a high regard or high value for someone or something that we’ve chosen to know in this exceptional way. Most of us do not use “forever” in our “everyday” communications. We easily perceive how we “save” the usage of “forever” for only unique and special circumstances, occasions and persons-of-interest. Even as we’ve used “forever” in our own mind’s logic or self-judgment, negative or positive, we can understand how “forever” has impacted our personal growth and freedom. We can observe how “forever” may have supported or restricted many of our decisions or needed changes throughout our lifetime thus far, possibly holding our selves hostage within moments of “time” as we waited for “forever” to meet up with us in some balanced and realistic way.

As we move forward everything shifts, changes, and evolves, would not our expectancy of “forever” also shift, change, and evolve? Can we find the unconditional nature of our life’s path to also include “forever”? To understand that in the moment we expressed or intended “forever”, the essence of that expression or intention became the truth in the meaning and expectancy of “forever”? That every moment from then and forward will now flow that essence and include “forever” in its evolving infinite nature, with the highest regard and value of this “forever” commitment? Here we can begin to understand the true meaning of “forever” as the eternal effects initiated at the initial introduction and union with “forever”; knowing that what will evolve from that present moment and forward is most valuable and significant indeed…now and forever!


With Freedom Comes Great Abundance

What are we hanging onto when it comes to allowing our self the ability to let go and experience pure freedom?  Is there truly such an experience?  What happens when we are given greater freedom or achieve it in a greater capacity?  Is it possible to be free in all that we do, think, say, or feel?  Of course, we can and we do with each step, as we realize the potential at that time for greater freedom in being all that we are and desire to become.  We immediately sense the abundant nature and essence of our freedom and allow it to fully flow in all aspects of our lives.  Yet often times there can seem to be something limiting or restricting us in some way.  Does that mean we are not truly free?  How do we normally receive and respond to greater freedom in our day-to-day living and decision making?

Do we fear our freedom and wonder what next thing will come along to take that freedom away from us?  Do we feel guilty because we find our self set apart in our freedom, from others who continue to choose the opposite?  In our greater awareness what can come with this abundant nature of our freedom are uncertainty, insecurity, and vulnerability.  Here we stand, feeling our very best in our alignment with the best of our experience, when fear of unknowns comes to challenge us in how we remain or thrive in our new found freedom.  We ask our self “How can this fear be present when where we stand is right where we wanted to be for so long?”  “Can we let go in a greater way in order to know what greater freedom might be for us and then be willing to step into it, knowing that once we do there will be no turning back?”

It’s close to impossible to know what our new and greater freedom may mean for us and all those we are connected to.  Is it safe to assume that it is healthy and in our integrity to continue on this path of new and greater freedom?  Are we at a place where we need to consider applying new parameters around our greater freedom?  The answers remain ours as with our freedom are its abundant nature and essence we will elaborate upon.  Thus, with our freedom comes our ability for response-ability, in making our best choices and decisions.  It truly is our individual choice what we may or may not do with this bountiful opening and gift of our new found freedom.  To simply allow our new freedom to be present in our forward steps, then begin to design our life in the manner most appropriate for us, our well-being and those we love, all on this new path we are now aligned with.